Jodoh

Assalammualaikum,

I terbace this posting on one of my good friend's blog, Cik Beddi. Basically the entry was about jodoh and I guess she's a lil frustrated when peep keep asking her about not planning to get married yet. I agreed when she said "jodoh tuh di tangan Allah S.W.T". 

The reason why I agreed with her is that, I believe that it is not necessary to bercinta lama - lama tuk kawin cause at the end of day, bercinta lelama tuh bukan suatu kepastian untuk bertemu jodoh ngan org yg dicintai lelama itu. Kalau dah jodoh, kenal hari nih, minggu depan pun dah leh nikah. I berani ckp nih cause I ader ramai kawan yg mcm nih. Ader yg bercinta 5-6 tahun tapi last last nikah ngan org lain yg baru kenal 2 bulan. ader plak yg kenal 5-6 tahun tapi mmg langsung tak de plan nak kawin. tapi last last depa kawin jugak. ader plak yg konon nya tekad tak nak kawin sampai umo 30, tapi last last dia yg kawin dulu. and ader plak yg kata tak nak la kawin kalau tak jumpa lelaki cam Aaron Aziz (hehe), tapi last last, jodoh ngan ... yg tak langsung mcm Aaron Aziz.

And in the last past one month or so, I've learned that few of my close friends will be getting married soon after my Majlis. sebelum nih tak de plak dgr anything pasal plan nak langsung majlis.. tetiba jer... sebab tuh... Jodoh tak leh diduga, kadang lagi kita tak mencari, lagi dekat sebenarnya jodoh itu dengan kita... Jadinya, jgn kita tutup pintu hati untuk terima jodoh, dan jgn pula kita beria-ia mengejar jodoh yg mungkin cuma ilusi... Berdoa dan redha la atas segala rancangan Nya... Sesungguhnya Jodoh itu adalah dengan Izin dan KetentuanNya. 

So, Beddi... to those yg berckp pelik pelik tuh.. IGNORANCE IS THE BEST MEDICINE...  love ya!! ;)

TOP 20 New Playlist - 2011

This is My 2011 TOP NEW Playlist. Can't Wait for more Fab. Rockin Music in 2012... BTW, the below is listed in no particular order. ;)

1. Boyce Avenue – Grenade (Cover)

http://youtu.be/Aqfsto6mJ_4

2. Taylor Swift – Teardrops on My Guitar

http://youtu.be/xKCek6_dB0M

3. Jason Mraz – Geek In Pink

http://youtu.be/SdryssUmlpE

4. Lady Antebellum – Just A Kiss

http://youtu.be/v_yTphvyiPU

5. Daughtry – Crawling Back To You

http://youtu.be/g2WJ3mhjgHA

6. Coldplay – Every Tears is a Waterfall

http://youtu.be/fyMhvkC3A84

7. The Fray – Heartbeat

http://youtu.be/hp0_2fjPlbM

8. Boyce Avenue – When The Lights Die

http://youtu.be/LP346UnjC_w

9. One Direction – What Makes You Beautiful

http://youtu.be/QJO3ROT-A4E

10. Bad Meets Evil ft Bruno Mars – Lighters

http://youtu.be/YWt4wmZ_EMI

11. Adelle – Someone like you

http://youtu.be/hLQl3WQQoQ0

12. 3 Suara (Ning, Jac & Shila) – Beribu Sesalan

http://youtu.be/MSddbmtZZw8

13. Hafiz & Adira – Ombak Rindu

http://youtu.be/a-mqkjDnljo

14. Pasha Ungu ft Adelia – Penghujung Cintaku

http://youtu.be/2HGCalLLJkE

15. Agnes Monica – Matahariku

http://youtu.be/SLMGrux86L8

16. Maher Zain – For The Rest of My Life

http://youtu.be/PHbZ9SXHJwA

17. Mizz Nina ft Flo Rida – Takeover

http://youtu.be/0j-RWuAnB_A

18. Faizal Tahir – Karma

http://youtu.be/NCcFnuZvBsg

19. Meet Uncle Hussein ft Hazama – Pokok

http://youtu.be/NYpik1TUQYo

20. Altimet, DJ Fuzz, Ila Damiaa, Point Blanc, Rabbit Mac - Malaysian Boy

             http://youtu.be/vjdN72quIM4

~~Till Next Time~~

Happy New Year.. 2012 !!!

Wishing All Of You A Happy New Year and May All Be Blessed With A Better Year... ;)

2011 has been an exhausting yet great year. Some of the things that happen really did challenge my inner capacity to cope physically and emotionally. Nevertheless, I never felt stronger and the experience is priceless. The trust laid upon me by those who believe in me has pushed me to the boundaries that even I don’t know I’m capable of. All in all, it was an amazing year with no regret.. every steps taken was worth every second of my time..

And now being able to breathe the fresh air of the year 2012 is not without a hope that a better year will begin. It is with all gratefulness to Allah S.W.T to be blessed with another wishfully exciting and wonderful year. Amin, Ya Rabbal Alamin.

~~Check out My next Post for my the TOP 20 songs in my 2011 playlist~~

Till Next Time!! Peace!!

Favor, Karma & Friendship ..

Assalammualaikum,

Today, Naim & I went for our compulsory HIV Test.. and the outcome is as predicted à NON-Reactive. In other words, we are clean from HIV. Alhamdulillah. ;)

But, that is not why I’m writing today. Let’s talk about “FAVOR” today. Those who have known me for sometimes knew that, I’m the kind of person who finds it difficult to say “NO” to anyone, especially when I know them. So, normally when people ask my favour, I’ll do anything in my power to grant them the favour. And when I do grant them the favour as requested, I don’t normally ask anything back in return. BUT, it is nice to know they appreciate it and not just take it for granted. 

No matter what people say, I do believe in KARMA. If we do something good, eventually good things will happen to us and vice versa.  So, I try my best to not hate people and also to forgive one’s wrong-doing, even when it is hard to forget. Usually, when I’m not that found of someone and it is getting close to hating that person, I would keep my distance and try to avoid any kind interaction with that person. This is to prevent myself from hating that person.  And so far, in my life, there’s no one person who I hate but there’s by far, 2 person  that I can’t stand  in my life. The reason why I can’t stand them is self-justifiable.

Back to “favour” again. This time let’s talk in terms of “FRIENDSHIP”.  I just couldn’t understand those people who are in a position to be called friend but cannot even say “hi” to my face whenever we cross path, but have the “courage” to ask for assistance whenever they feel like it. And the best part is, they couldn’t even ask it face-to-face. I mean, how “heroic” one must be to ask favour from someone, when they can’t even say one word to; face-to-face. And even when I assisted them, as soon as they get what they want, I won’t hear from them again until the next time they need a favour.

So, here’s a thought. I would LOVE to assist anyone (if I can), as long as the next time you see me, perhaps walking down the stairs or getting in or out of my car, or sitting in my office, or when we’re in the same room,  try talking to me or a simple “hi Dee” will do. Try being a friend, cause I’m willing to give you the” benefit of a doubt”.   I think that is reasonable. Yes? Cause, honestly, I can’t make peace with myself for refusing (in purpose) to help a person when I knew I can help them. Unless, you are a perfect stranger; I have never know you in my life and there’s no one else you could ask and you are not a con-man/woman… then it would be a different case all together.

~~Till Next Time~~ ;)

When it was all lies.. It can never be REAL..!

We ain't got no past..
and Hell, we ain't got no future
history you say?
hate to break it to you, but..
all we had was a bunch of lies laid on a bed of egoes..
you. me. and all who had pretended to care.
history can't be created based on lies..
so, do us all a favor and wake up.
open your eyes.
see who's next to you.
cause that is CURRENT.
that is REAL.
and believe me when I say,
it ain't gonna get any better than that.

~~Something that I wrote in my journal few months back, just to remind myself to live in the current, and always keep it real and that lies will always be lies, thus no matter how hard we try, or how much it hurts, It will never be true.~~

Crime and Punishment

"A former student who is morbidly self-obsessed, murders an old woman money-lender with a borrowed hatcher in a desperate attempt to free himself from poverty.".- Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky. It's my current reading material. Hope to finish reading it by end of this coming week. First 2 chapters seems interesting. lets just hope that it's gonna be interesting and exciting till the end.