Fan of a fan's group?

Holla lovely peeps!!

I am not a big fan of Malaysian football. Never have been. So I would be not the person you want to be with in the stadium watching football unless it is Malaysian team against other International club - then, this will be a different story, perhaps. 

My previous entry I did wrote about the Ultras, and I have a question now - Does all this people who goes to the stadium to watch the match really are a die-hard fan or even simply a fan at all of the game?? or are they fan of the Ultras??  The reason for my question is that, the Ultras seems to be more exciting then the match itself. ;) ... there are more spirit from the bench then on the field itself. 

peace ;)

Dee.. 

 

23.05.2014 - SAMPAI MATI !!!

Cerita hari ini,
Aku lukis dalam hati,
Cinta hati ini,
Aku simpan hari mati.

Diri aku ini,
Benarkan cinta kenal mati.
Walau satu hari,
Aku janji pada diri,
Harus buka mata hati,
Kenali satu cinta sampai MATI.

Who is the Hooligans? - as opposed to the ULTRAS by DON a.k.a OREN SPRITE

Kenali PUNK & SKINHEAD terlebih dahulu sebelum kenal HOOLIGANS , ini kerana mereka adalah punca kewujudan HOOLIGANS tersebut  dan jangan samakan Ultras dengan HOOLIGANS , kerana Ultras terdiri daripada semua peringkat umur dan jantina .. dalam Ultras ada HOOLIGANS , akan tetapi Ultras bukanlah HOOLIGANS .. HOOLIGANS lebih gemar berada berdekatan dengan penyokong pasukan lawan dan menjadikan diri mereka sebagai benteng mahupun barisan hadapan ketika pertempuran dengan pasukan lawan .. berbanding Ultras yang berada di Curva mereka sendiri .. sifat patriotik dalam diri , bangga dengan gaya permakaian mereka dan keberanian untuk bertindak kepada pihak lawan menjadi mentaliti dan ideologi paling utama dalam kotak minda HOOLIGANS !

Not Born To Be ...

I am not born to be a Punk or A Skin Head lover.. Sorry my heart just can't go there... no hatred.. just lack of interest. ;) ..

but take note, loving a person personally is different than loving what he represent.

Muahhh.. ;)
xoxo - DEE

Not Feminism, Just Common Sense.

My thoughts today is drawn on one particular issue that has been around for centuries and now in the modern era, the mindset has still not change when everything else has undergo revolutions. I am writing this as a Woman who has always been conscious about the role of a Woman in the society, in business, in politics, role of a wife in a household, role of a Mother towards her children and what is being expected from them and whether what is expected from them is at all fair and reasonable?

My writing today is particularly in regards to what is expected from a wife and what are the roles that men have set their mind to expect from a woman after marriage. In Norms, and please don’t get me wrong here, by norms I means out of 10, there might be 1 or more to odd this out – but in norms, a woman is expected out of her to cook, to clean, to wash, to attend to her husband’s need and wants – sexual or non-sexual needs, to attend to her children’s needs and wants, and in general make sure everything in the house is in order and well taken care of. I mean.. really? I know a lot of man out there will be cursing me right now and will be on their defensive mode.. but come on.. at some point you guys know this is true.

I am not ruling all the above expected roles out as I think it is okay up to a certain level to expect woman to participate in an active role in a household but my issue is, when Men is said to be the HEAD OF FAMILY, the BREADWINNER, the IMAM in the family, the PROTECTOR, he is carrying a very High and Heavy responsibility but this responsibility now is seems to revolve more on the matter of bringing home cash, providing wealth, putting food on the table… it is all monetary in value..  and in today’s world, this is shared together with his wife. Nowadays, the wife is contributing up to half (in some cases more) to the family financial fund. When this is in fact in reality, why are the traditional roles is still being expected from the wife??

Is it fair to expect the wife to wake up early in the morning before her husband and children wakes up,  to prepare breakfast, prepare them to work and school… when she has not been getting much sleep due to late night dish washing, ironing the children’s uniform and her husband’s work cloth and pleasing her husband in bed… AND when she has to go to work herself?

If this is the case, and in many cases it has been the issue, should the husband start to stop and re-think their position as the head of family?? Should carrying such title means more responsibility should be expected out of them, more than their wife? Should they be the one who ensure that everything is being taken care of and his wife and children’s well-being is his top priority? This is what they know should be the right perspective but is it being practice? Is it in reality being implemented? From my view, my answer would be NO.

If the wife can share her income? Why can’t the husband share the household chores and be in control of all the family affairs instead of branching it out to the wife and spend the free time watching football until late night with friends at mamak or playing futsal on working night and be home just in time for a  “semen removal” session and a good sleep afterwards.

Be A MAN by character.. Not just man by gender. Know your Resposibility. Know what is expected from you before expecting it from others... 

Peace ;)

Lots of LOVE.. DEE

   

My Unrealistic dream - Not Impossible ??

Salam and What's up Peeps??

As some of you guys who knows me.. I've put on some weight some 2 years back and now released that i need to loose them after looking at my old pictures when I was in s size. So now, I'm actually on a strict diet and actually exercising religiously. 

I also have this dream to have a killer abs the one like in the picture below and not the one with six pack as i think six pack is sexier on man.. ;).

Not sure if I can get this shape within 6 months but fortunately for me, I have someone who is kind enough to be my coach and has my back and will always boost up my spirit when I am not feeling it anymore.. (You Know Who You Are).

So, we shall see the result in 6 months, if I ever accomplished my goal. hehe ;)

Love ;)

My Consciousness on ULTRAS.

Holla Peeps...

I bet a lot of you guys out there knows about the existence of the 'ULTRAS', but I'm a total alien to this until few days back when I was doing my stalking activity on Mr. Don a.k.a Oren Sprite. This entry is however not about him.. because that would take forever for me to write. This entry is about my FIRST perspective on the ULTRAS in Malaysia.

Who are they? What They Do? Their Chants? Their passions towards football and their unconditional dedication towards the team they support.The idea of the whole fan-club-like, supporting the team that they truly believe in, in this case is somehow patriotic. Why? They are mostly supporting the team representing a state they are from, or their country.

Patriotism is good but when it comes to healthy competition, patriotism may ruin it on some level when some people just over do it. From what I was served by the Youtube and by Mr. Google, supporting becomes not just chanting encouraging positive words anymore, which helps in the spirit boosters but it takes chanting and supporting in a whole different level and gives healthy competition a whole different meaning and patriotism a whole different perspective - it is a spirit booster alright! It boost aggressiveness along side with provocation for hatred.

I might be a dreamer or idealistic in this matter, but my first thought was, what happen to healthy peaceful cheering? where we can have a decent disagreement on the stadium bench against the team at other side of the stadium and still have the consciousness to make peace after the match instead of taking it outside the stadium to prolong what can be ended when the game end and any sorrow should have just be left behind in the stadium. I've also came to learned that, some of this provocation of hatred started long even before the match's day.

Nevertheless, After doing some thinking, I came to realized now, that at some point, this patriotism is needed in our country especially in the heart and soul of the young generation. This are the people who will stand tall defending the nation's pride as they possess courage and a built-in fighting spirit for what they love and cherish.

Thus, I came to conclude that, every white must have black spots and every black shall also come with  white spots... just keep the violence in necessity mode and the vulgar words away from kids ears. You stand tall on what you believe in ULTRAS... and May all the good things rest on your path. ;)